Children always spice up our lives. Be it their shenanigans or cute actions, they command an audience like none other for just being themselves.
Pogo has recently (only for the last 3 years..) discovered that we have (an acute, incurrable) weakness for him.
SECENE 1: Everytime we get cross with Pogo over one-too-many of his never ending adventures, he crosses his arms over his chest, closes his eyes, and with his face turned away from us, says “I am so sad.. Mommy is angry with me.”
SCENE 2: pogo’s meal time tantrums are legendary, add to it the spice of drama. My life is absolutely funtastic.!
As a morsel moves towards pogo’s mouth, he shuts his mouth with his hands and says “momma I am hurt. I can’t eat” Worried that he bit himself or is really hurt, AI ask him were are you hurt? My little show-stopper then scans his body from head to toe to locate (and really re-scans until he locates) some long forgotten wound..!! Huff.. Feeding kids..!
SCENE 3: Since Pogo joined school, he has improved a lot in terms of his communication and his temper tantrums. All this has been replaced with some thing more fun. DRAMA..!!
When you ask Pogo a simple question. His response now is to place his pointing finger on his cheek, say “hmm.. Think think think” (wait till you finish figetting and wait some more) and then respond…!! May the Lord give me patience..!!
Now, we have been regular spectators of his drama and just giggle (behind his back whilst showcasing an angry face).
We have just purchased a new car and with a new car comes the inadvertent fear of making a dent..! There is nothing that would scare a new car owner than a dent.
Our parking space has a few pillars and requires expertise to skillfully park the car. I currently fall under the aspiring-to-become-expert category so I pale everytime I have to park our car. Fortunately, GK assists (screams with the you’re-going-to-dent look) with the parking.
One evening, Pogo and I went out for a play-date and we found ourselves at our mercy whilst parking.
After quite some struggle and panic attacks later, I successfully parked the car. As I pulled to a stop my beaming co-passenger says “wow mom, you did it…! hurrah..! ”
Beaming back at my wonderful son who understood my pain and waited for me to succeed to share my joy.., I couldn’t resist the urge to treat him and off we walked to the nearest ice cream parlor..!
Parenting 101: Compliments always bring cheer..!
Pogo has speech delay (thanks to nuclear families, a motherhood-illiterate me and TV). He is just learning to articulate a few things to us and it’s a whole new game.
A friend (also a professional speech therapist) recommend that we await a response from Pogo before we fulfil his need.
Taking the advise to heart, the over-enthusiast, eager-to-set-it-right parents (i.e us) began our journey. Everytime Pogo requested for something by pointing to it, we would add “oh Pogo baby, you want water, yes or no? ” whilst nodding to add the visual communication tools.
Annoyed. Frustrated. Angry. Irritated. Pogo had had his way for so long and now his wierd tall at-bid assistants (in earth lingo these assistants are called parents) we’re asking him too many questions.
One fine evening, Pogo wanted some snack. As he kept pointing to his favorite snack with a hungry and cute face, I was stone-hearted enough to ask “is this what you want baby? Say yes or no? ” As I repeated, hunger and anger had tipped over Pogo’s little head and in an angry voice he said “Yes or No”.
Stunned by the sudden outburst and the absurdity of it, I (idiotic as ever) said “no baby, you must say either yes or no”. Still missing his snack and angry, Pogo repeated in a rather loud voice “hmm, yes or now” and sternly pointed at his snack.
Unable to control myself any longer, I handed over his rightful snack to him “yes or no” style..!
Parenting 101: Anger gets the better of us,. Just say it, yes or no?
An unforeseen bond exists between the grandchild and the grandparents. They share the best laughs, the best moments and the best of life together.
Last week, Pogo’s Nana decided to have a sisters-day-out. So, she had been away for whole two days. Pogo had never experienced his Nana being away for so long and was beginning to miss her.
So when we had gone to my aunt’s home to pick Nana.. Pogo was super excited.
In the living room, Nana and her two sisters sat, waiting for us.. As soon as we stepped on the breaks of our car, the door leapt open and Pogo ran into the house crying “Nana, Nana, let’s go home.”
Happy to see two more shrivelled, huggable, cuddly nanas there.. Pogo’s excitement knew no bounds. Whilst he kept bouncing from one cuddly Kissy encounter to the next, the ever-responsible mother (Me of course) Reminded him that it was time to leave.
In his excitement and still dizzy from all the hugs, Pogo grabbed the first bony hand reachable to the car. On reaching, Pogo was shocked at the faux paid, he had grabbed the wrong Nana.
Nuclear families are a rage these days. And with nuclear families, comes smaller apartment homes and shared utility spaces. Now, this is all to theoretical for a toddler right? Theoretical or not, best to explain these dynamics to your little too loud for parent’s own good munchkin before taking him out.
Yesterday, we had decided to go to the movies. Pogo was an absolute darling and slept through the entire movie, allowing us three complete hours to enjoy the (good) movie. Waking up, (just as the credits were rolling up) Pogo had an urgent need to go.
As we were rushing to the little boys room, I asked GK to assist Pogo whilst I waited for them outside. Coming out, Pogo had a long drawn face, too upset to say anything. Cajoling him, I asked, “What happened Pogo baby? why the long face?” (Garnering all his innocence and putting up the puppy dog eyes,) Pogo says “mummy, why didn’t you come to the loo?”
Suppressing a giggle, I explain to him that the room he visited was exclusively for boys and girls have their own special room. Unable to control his pain any further, Pogo burst out “But why? we share a room at home?” ((Good lord, who teaches these kids logic??)) As i continued to explain, “Pogo baby, mommy is a girl while you are a boy so, we each have our special rooms?”
Unsatisfied with my numerous responses, Pogo continued to ask “but why?” till we reach home away from the curious eyes of on lookers.
Parenting 101: Even in the toddler world, gender bias is unacceptable. Oops..!!
For about a fortnight since school, Pogo has begun to show interest in colouring, which is good because now we can carry around just that one item when we go out to keep him engaged. (which of course doesn’t work..! Outside has so much more fun to offer than paper and colors..!)
As a responsible, loving, over-excited mother, I did the most obvious thing.. I guided him (oh.. The illusions of motherhood..!!) on how to color better.(like he needs it..)
So in order to encourage the ever-enthusiastic mother, Pogo handed over a crayon to me and asked me to fill in. (or so I thought) As I just about finished colouring a section, I stopped to admire my handy work and asked Pogo “Pogo how is amma’s coloring? ”
Then began the screams and accusations. Pogo had only meant for me to hold the crayon whilst he color. Now, the sheet was etched with my handy work and he disliked it.
Even today, almost a week or so since, Pogo rushes to show his coloring book to every visitor (if lucky, you would even get a larger than life version of how I snatched-“I didn’t”.. the crayon to commit the hedious crime) to narrate the tale of his guilty mother.
Parenting 101: baby talk is no excuse for stupid actions..!